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I likely should preface this article by saying that I am somewhat of a natural born worrier, but even putting this known personality trait aside, I think the recent news stories of kids being left alone in a house with a babysitter via Skype is pretty alarming stuff.

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It's difficult to find the actual truth in the stories that have recently surfaced, with some reports stating a child as young as 4 was left alone with a grandparent babysitting via Skype, and other reports mentioning 7 year olds being left alone with Skype sitters. The truth that is coming out, however, is that young children are being left alone, and that a Skype sitter is the only supervision that they are being left with.

I should explain that this is a totally different situation to families using Skype to connect with family members far away. We use Skype in our house and on an almost weekly basis, my pre-schooler will sit happily chatting to his grandparents, often with me just in the background getting some chores done. The key thing here is that I am in the background, I have not left the building. Contrast this to the young child, left home alone with grandparents or other family member, who are 'babysitting' via Skype or Face time or some other means of video conferencing. I'll admit, that I am sure this Skype interaction would definitely hold the attention of many young children but shoot me if I am wrong but Skype sitters cannot:

Provide emergency attention should a situation warrant it.
Cannot prevent an accident happening even if they can see it on screen.
Provide first aid treatment, should a choking incident occur.
Get refreshments for the child that is being looked after.
Settle a child for their nap or bedtime sleep.
Stop a child from opening a door, getting outside or getting into potentially hazardous situations.

What if there is a power cut, or worse a fire? The overactive worrier in me can likely think of many much worse situations, but that's enough food for thought for now.

Is It Even Legal

The law in Australia is a little hazy on this topic, as there is no actual clarity on what age a child can or can't be left on their own. However, what the law does state is that parents are responsible to make 'reasonable' decisions about their child's safety and it is their responsibility to look after their children with this in mind. Parents are expected to ensure children are fed, clothed, have a place to live and moreover that they are kept safe and have suitable supervision. Based on these assumptions, I'd be hedging my bets that a Skype sitter might not pass the test as the provision of suitable supervision particularly in younger children.

As a side note, the NSPCC (National Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Children) in the UK provides the following guidance:

Children under 12 are rarely mature enough to be left alone for a long period of time
Children under 16 shouldn't be left alone overnight
Babies, toddlers and very young children should never be left alone

So for my part, even though I'd like more nights out with my husband, even though it might be nice to get to the gym a bit more often, I'll be waiting on a real life human baby sitter to help me out, and will save the fun of Skype time for when I am present and accounted for. At least until the kids are old enough to fend for themselves.

Would you leave your kids with a virtual sitter?

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