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Foolproof Dadisms: How A Father Can Prevent His Son from Sexting

Sexting is dangerous. Letís get that out of the way now. If youíre here reading this, itís either because youíve become aware your son has been sexting, or you have a suspicion and are looking for more information.

Make no mistake, no matter what your teen may be saying to dismiss it, there is very real danger in teens sexting.

What is Sexting?

The root of ďsextingĒ is the joining of two words: sex and texting. Obvious, yes, but itís important to keep this in mind as your teen tells you what heís doing is innocent, or ďnot a big dealĒ. Thereís nothing innocent when sex is involved.

At its most ďinnocentĒ sexting involves flirtatious messages of a sexual nature. At the more intense level, it means naked photos. On the one hand, this behavior can cause serious emotional stress when images are mocked or publicized. But also, sending these photos of teen children over electronic means constitutes as child pornography. This behavior can get not only your son but a lot of people into some very serious trouble.

How to Stop it

There are steps you can take as a father to ensure your son understands the what and why of why sexting should be avoided, and also how to prevent itóone way or another.

1. Communication.
First and foremost, you need to be able to communicate with your son. Not only about everyday things, but the potentially uncomfortable stuff as well. This includes sex, sexuality, and lifestyles. If your son feels he can talk to you, sexting can be an easy matter to discuss and close before it even starts. If heís not comfortable and feels he canít come to you, itís likely heíll go somewhere else to get his information, which could be unreliable or teach the wrong lesson.

2. Inform.
Communication naturally leads to informing your son of the dangers. Explain the dangers of sexting and how the threat of child pornography is very real and could land him and his friends in prison.

3. Teach.
Now that your son has the information he needs, teach him how to apply it to a healthy, secure life. Remind them that anything sent out can never be returned. This isnít paper. If he sends a compromising pic of himself out, he loses all control over where it goes. If he receives any, or forwards any onto his friends, heís then responsible for the consequences.

4. Be the parent.
You are your sonís father. Youíre not his friend, youíre not his buddy. If, after all of the communication, he begins or continues the behavior, and thus proves he canít be trusted, itís up to you to take control. The risks to your sonís future are worth more than a few angsty glares.

Smooth Sailing

Teens will do as they do while they explore who they are. Itís up to us as parents, however, to guide them through the dangerous waters and make them aware of the consequences. When in doubt about anything, research to educate yourself so that you can help your teen as best you can.

Tyler Jacobson is a father, husband, and writer, with experience as a content writer and outreach coordinator for HelpYourTeenNow. Tyler has offered honest advice and humor to struggling parents and teens. Tyler has researched and written on education problems, disorders, the world of social media, addiction, and pressing issues with raising a teen today. Follow Tyler on: Twitter | LinkedIn

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